Some people in Ohio are lucky enough to have in-laws whom they get along with very well. On the other hand, other people dislike their in-laws, finding them a source of stress and frustration. Surprisingly, a new study suggests that women in the latter category could be less likely to go through divorce.
The study, which was conducted by researchers at the University of Michigan, found that?women who get along well with their in-laws appear to be 20 percent more likely to go through divorce than women who don't get along with their in-laws.
The researchers found that the opposite appeared to be true among men. Husbands who get along well with their in-laws appear to be 20 percent less likely to go through divorce than married men who don't get along with their in-laws.
The researchers determined that women who get along well with their in-laws often become too involved with their husband's family, to the point where the wives end up feeling that the in-laws are meddling in the marriage. This, in turn, puts strain on the marriage, which can contribute to the likelihood of getting divorced.
The researchers concluded that men are less likely to be put off by in-laws who "meddle." The psychologist and research professor who led the study said that the results suggest that men who form close relationships with their wives' families end up strengthening the marital bond.
On the other hand, the psychologist and research professor said that women should be wary of sharing too much information about their marriages with their in-laws. He said women often take it much more personally when in-laws weigh in on their marriage or parenting, which can cause conflict.
What are your thoughts on this study? Did your relationship with your in-laws affect your marriage?
Source: Business Insider, "Getting Along With The In-Laws Makes Women More Likely To Divorce," Alice Philipson, Nov. 28, 2012
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